08. Week 1 - Teaching 6
2025.07.29
Atisha said:
If from your heart you practise in accordance with Dharma, both food and resources will come naturally to hand.
VGKG:
In JPGF, when Buddha was a Bodhisattva he accumulated a vast amount of merit. His SG predicted that due to this he would enjoy the wealth of a chakravatin king for many aeons. Instead, he dedicated all this merit so that in the future when he was a Buddha, all his pure followers wouldn’t have to worry about dying from hunger. We’re still benefiting from that dedication today.
Geshe Langri Tangpa made 2 promises to Geshe Potowa before he passed away - that he would give away all his possessions, and that he wouldn’t stay in one place for very long. Then whenever he moved to another place he would first give away all his possessions, and then travel empty-handed. Through Langri Tangpa happily accepting poverty and continuously practising giving, he accumulated a vast amount of merit. Due to his great collection of merit, later in his life he received so many offerings from people. He was able to support a monastery of 2000 monks and many other people. Every month he’d give everything away, and the next month he’d receive even more.
Friends, the things you desire give no more satisfaction than drinking sea water; therefore practise contentment.
What is contentment? In our NKT glossary, Geshe-la explains:
The truth is, in this impure world it is extremely rare to find anyone who is completely content. We try to find happiness in worldly pleasures, samsaric enjoyment, following our attachment. But as JT said, “samsara’s pleasures are deceptive, give no contentment, only torment.” Do I believe that? Instead of finding true happiness we just experience suffering, including the suffering of never finding satisfaction.
Reading from the chapter “Having No Satisfaction” in JPGF:
Most of the problems we experience come from our seeking satisfaction in the pleasures of samsara when no real satisfaction can be derived from them. For instance, if we seek satisfaction from drinking alcohol we will keep drinking and drinking without ever finding what we seek. Similarly, if we try to find contentment by smoking or taking drugs we will never find the satisfaction we desire.
If we continue to seek satisfaction in such limited pleasures without realizing that these things can never give us what we want, we will create many compulsive bad habits and cause problems for ourself and others. We may destroy our health, hurt and deceive other people, and even break the law and find ourself in prison. We will create unhappy relationships with other people and influence others to act in ways that are harmful to their health and peace of mind.
All the difficulties we have in our relationships with others come because we do not know how to be content. When marriages break up it is because people cannot completely satisfy one another. If we have very strong desirous attachment we will never be content with another person because no one will ever be able to give us all we desire. Sometimes people are torn apart by their desirous attachment. It prevents them from leaving their partner, and it prevents them from feeling happy with that relationship alone.
If we consider why nations go to war we will find that the basic reason is very simple. Human beings cannot be content with their own wealth and resources but must appropriate more and more. Millions of people have died in warfare as a result of humankind’s collective discontent.
Even people who appear to have everything do not have satisfaction. In fact, the wealthiest people are often the most dissatisfied. As their wealth increases, so does their discontent. It is extremely rare to find anyone who can say with complete sincerity ‘I do not need anything. I am completely content.’
The more money we have, the more things we can buy. We have many choices. Generally we want to buy the best things we can afford. We are always comparing. Soon we need to rent a self-storage unit to store all these things that give us no satisfaction and disappear when we die. Also when we do get something that we want, we don’t get it in the way we want. The more we indulge worldly pleasures the stronger our attachment becomes, and the greater our discontent.
We who take rebirth in samsara are like moths who are not satisfied merely to behold the beauty of a candle flame but must leap into it. We are like flies who cannot be content with merely the smell of food but must land on it only to be caught and killed. All the lethal situations we find ourself in are created by our own dissatisfaction.`
In Friendly Letter Nagarjuna says:
‘Always be content. If you practise contentment, even though you have no wealth, you are rich.’
Without contentment we are spiritually impoverished even if we possess a great amount of wealth. A poor person who is satisfied with what he or she has and who has no strong craving to amass wealth is inwardly a rich person. Such a person has less misery, fewer problems and greater peace of mind.
1994:
The analogy of drinking seawater is very powerful.
“The wealth we seek is unfindable. Because we are seeking an amount that will satiate our desires, but no amount of wealth can do that.”
By indulging again and again in worldly pleasures we become very attached to those activities. And then what happens - when our attachment to those activities increase, our wish to practise Dharma decreases. If we continue in this way, eventually we will have much more interest in worldly activity than in spiritual practice. We may lose all our joy in Dharma study and practice.
Therefore we should practise contentment. People who are ordained should make contentment their main practice. Practitioners who have a family need many things because they have responsibility to their children. But they also need some contentment.
“Understanding that samsaric enjoyment can never give me satisfaction, I must always practise contentment.”
In our daily life, when attachment arises and we find ourselves wanting more and more, we should try to control our desire. Think, “I don’t need this. I am satisfied.” Our attachment will protest. But we’re telling it, “NO.” We’ll need to do this many times. If we do, something so important and meaningful will happen - instead of being under our mind, controlled by it, we will get above our mind. With our Guru’s blessings, and our determination, we are learning to control our attachment. Our experience is that our mind becomes more and more peaceful. We are finding happiness from a different source. We realise that what we really need is inner peace. Control means not allow.
In HTUTM Geshe-la says, “While we are enjoying internal peace and happiness our craving for external sources of pleasure naturally declines and it is easy for us to remain content.”
Venerable Geshe-la has shown this example perfectly. Once an RT went to see Geshe-la. He gave so much help and support. She asked him, “but Geshe-la, what can I give you?” And he said, “I don’t need anything. I have everything.” His contentment was blissful. Then he said, “When you return home to your centre, please help the people there find happiness in their heart. You can give me this.”
Just trust our SG more than our attachment. If we follow him, one day we will be able to say, “I don’t need anything. I have everything.”
Avoid all haughty, conceited, proud and arrogant minds, and remain peaceful and subdued.
Atisha here is referring to deluded pride, which arises when we feel ‘puffed up’, and we have an exaggerated sense of our own importance.
1994:
Pride is an obstacle to listening to Dharma teachings because we think we don’t need it. It looks like we are filled. Our whole mind thinks, “I am a higher being and know such things.” With this mind it is very difficult to develop minds like compassion, love, and renunciation. It is a serious obstacle.
In HTUTM:
NESTH:
Avoid activities that are said to be meritorious, but which in fact are obstacles to Dharma.
Profit and respect are nooses of the maras, so brush them aside like stones on the path.
If we are attached to wealth and the respect of others this is a serious obstacle to the development of realisations. It becomes a mara’s noose. Buddhas and our SG lead us along the spiritual path, but maras such as Devaputra use nooses to drag us away from the spiritual path. These nooses can sometimes be in the aspect of our friends. In appearance they look like they’re helping us but in reality they’re turning us away from the spiritual path. This is a mara’s noose which we should brush away. This means that profit and respect should never be allowed to interfere with our practice of Dharma.
“I must never allow attachment to profit and respect to interfere with my Dharma practice.”
Words of praise and fame serve only to beguile us; therefore blow them away as you would blow your nose.
For faithful Kadampa practitioners who are sincerely practising Guru yoga, they mentally offer any words of praise or respect to their Guru at their heart. Why? Because they feel that their SG is the proper recipient of that praise. This is very skilful method to remain as a humble practitioner, devoted to fulfilling our SG’s wishes. Outwardly we accept kindly, but inwardly we offer to our Guru at our heart. This is explained in Heart Jewel on the section on practising in the meditation break.
Since the happiness, pleasure and friends you gather in this life last only for a moment, put them all behind you.
1994:
We cannot accept this as written. Of course we need friends. But the real meaning is not to be attached. When we are doing retreat in a certain area or we want to be isolated we should happily leave them and not be attached. Also sometimes it is important to experience being alone without others. Through learning about being alone as a spiritual practice, being alone can make us more happy. We are not abandoning our friends, but we are trying to remain alone. We understand that when we are old people leave us. So now we need to learn to be happy while we are alone. This is meaningful for people like me. The more I experience being alone, the happier I am. I am completely free from the suffering of loneliness. I am happier in my room or in my bed. But it doesn’t mean I have abandoned all my friends. People who learn like this have no basis for suffering when they become old. Being alone helps you to be less distracted, less busy, and it is easier to concentrate on the Dharma. In particular ordained people need to learn how to transform being alone into the spiritual path.
Atisha said, “put them all behind you.” This means that we should remain alone. In this way our mind will be less busy, we can relax peacefully, and there are no conflicts. Otherwise we will hear many things and our mind will change. When we are talking to people we can also interfere with them unless we are both very pure practitioners.
Since future lives last for a very long time, gather up riches to provide for the future.
Geshe-la didn’t give commentary to this. In the Introduction to LMDJ, Geshe-la says:
The fact of the matter is that this world is not our home. We are travellers, passing through. We came from our previous life, and in a few years, or a few days, we will move on to our next life. We entered this world empty-handed and alone, and we shall leave empty-handed and alone. Everything we have accumulated in this life, including our very body, will be left behind. All that we can take with us from one life to the next are the imprints of the positive and negative actions we have created. If we ignore death we will waste our life working for things that we will only have to leave behind, creating many negative actions in the process and having to travel to our next life with nothing but a heavy burden of negative karma.
On the other hand, if we base our life on a realistic awareness of our mortality we will regard our spiritual development as far more important than the attainments of this world, and we will view our time in this world principally as an opportunity to cultivate positive minds, such as patience, love, compassion, and wisdom. Motivated by these virtuous minds we will perform many positive actions, thereby creating the cause for future happiness. When the time of our death comes we will be able to pass away without fear or regret, our mind empowered by the virtuous karma we have created.